Wednesday, September 27, 2006

Rain on a sunny day.

As you might already know from AC's post this morning, on Tuesday, The Boy got the middle of the night phone call that we all dread. His dad had passed during the night. Even though a loved one is sick and you are told that death might be imminent, you never expect it when it happens. You are never ready, and you always want to talk to them just one more time. Sigh!

Gilles had been in and out of the hospital since mid-summer, but we thought he was getting stronger and might rally like he had done so many times before. Sadly it was not to be this time. How sad for The Boy to lose his dad just when he is about to become a dad for the first time. My heart just aches for him.

Gilles was so please when he heard the news that his first grandchild was on the way, and he looked forward to holding that little bundle in his arms. When Butterfly and The Boy last visited Gilles about two weeks ago, he said that he would be strong and hold on to see that baby. Oh dear, life continues to get joy and sorrow all tangled up together doesn't it? All we can do is take what comes when it comes and let the remembered joy help us get through the sorrow.

Hug someone you love today and tell them that you love them. Walk in the sunshine whenever you can and enjoy this day while you have it. I intend to do just that.

Talk to you all later.

4 comments:

Gina said...

I will be sure to do so.

Again, my sympathies to your SIL and both families.

Heather said...

So sorry. My heart goes out to your son-in-law and daughter. It's hard to watch a child grow up not knowing their grandpa.

Granny said...

My sympathy to all of you. I haven't seen AC's post yet but I will now.

kathy said...

amen to that.